Jan 16 2006
Only for Adults!
Orgasm
Dear friends,
Two weeks ago, I lent the novel NAYLA to my workmate. I consider her as someone who enjoys her sex life with her husband. Well, I conclude it from our chat, of course.
Some days ago, she returned the book to me. Her comment, “Well, the story is not really interesting, just an ordinary story. But, I must say that Djenar’s idea about sexuality is very interesting.” and then, she asked herself, but I heard it, “I am questioning myself if I really ever get orgasm in my life after reading that.”
It reminds me of my chat with another workmate of mine. Some weeks ago, I had a chat with her about having sex. She lost her desire to do it after she delivered her first baby. However, she doesn’t reject her husband when he starts to seduce her, to arouse her. in the end, she also enjoys the sex. She told me she and her husband have their own way when she has period. I asked her how to do it. She said that her husband rubs his penis to her breasts. I asked her, “Do you enjoy that? Can it make you cum?” she said yes. I didn’t believe in her, at that time, how could a woman cum without her clitoris. It’s similar to how could a man cum without his penis. Just like in the books I have read, also based on my own experience, a woman needs her clitoris to get orgasm, just like a man needs his penis to cum.
When that workmate who borrowed NAYLA from me questioned herself whether she has ever got orgasm in her life, I remembered this other workmate. I start to feel suspicious if in fact, this friend never gets orgasm in her sex life. She doesn’t know yet what orgasm is like.
A few hours ago my workmate who happens to be my classmate, visited me. I asked her about this orgasm thing. She got married last February 2005. She strengthened the opinion that a woman needs clitoris to get orgasm. The stimulation in her nipples arouses her very well, but to lead to cum. she needs to end it with the stimulation in her clitoris.
I am talking about sex, orgasm, penis, clitoris, nipples but I don’t think if reading these above paragraphs arouses you. Or does it? 
Ciao,
Nana
